I am feeling very frustrated with my students. In particular, I'm frustrated with my beligerent students, the ones who constantly and consistently confront me with accusations that I want them to fail. (A note: The grades resemble a perfect inverted bell curve, which seems to be the common-place plot of grades for the last number of years in my experience at junior high.)
I feel that these students are very disrespectful. And I fear what others may say: That I am not being respectful to them. To that I would have to say: Not true. However, I also do not feel I need to defend to this blog whether I am respectful or not to my students, and here's why: Their disrespect extends beyond me. They have no regard for themselves, no regard for the time they are wasting of their peers, and no regard for the administration.
When the keep coming at me, demanding things, I chalk that up to having no respect for themselves. They do not feel that the work they have done should represent the grade they have earned. They feel that they can talk and bull-doze their way out of a poor mark.
When their peers complain to these students directly that they are wasting time, the beligerent students do not care, they tell their peers that they don't care whether they are being fair to them. When these peers come back with telling the beligerent students are not being fair to me, the beligerent kids roll their eyes and come back to me.
When the administration does nothing for behavior referals for plagiarism and insubordination, I am left with little choice. It is obvious from the beligerent students' behavior that they must have learned it somewhere, and I will not call home to confront more of the same but from an adult. I also will not discuss any matters with the administration since it is quite obvious they will do nothing but give warnings.
I have five more of these times to go through with these students. I doubt it will get better. I will not back down from the grades and will not 'fix' the numbers. That I will leave to the milk-toast administration if they want to appease the parents.
I have always wanted to give my students an assignment where they investigate whether doing homework, studying, different study techniques, getting extra help, etc. really corelate with higher grades. It would be a fun & (hopefully) telling math lesson.
Posted by: ms. frizzle | Tuesday, December 09, 2003 at 05:40 PM
It doesn't sound like you are having any fun at all this year ... that's not right. I'm giving you an assignment: enjoy your GOOD students. I teach a lot of difficult kids (I'm losing all plans this week to attend psych evals believe it or not), but I made a vow to myself to lavish attention on my good students, too, this year, and I'm having a much better time. Yeah, I wrote 3 referrals today, watched one of my freshmen get carried out on a stretcher, had a couple of strained conversations with parents, and endured a full day of some sort of insane stomach virus that causes the vilest smelling farts among teenagers trapped in small, stuffy classrooms, but I also learned a couple funny google tricks from one of my favorite students and received an Inferno project that was absolutely brilliant.
I told one class last year to "shut the hell up." Pretty effective, I must say.
Posted by: Rita C | Tuesday, December 09, 2003 at 08:40 PM
A couple students in my junior chemistry class were really giving me headaches earlier this year. I had three very talkative and disruptive girls in one class, and so I switched the seating charts so that everyone moved, but not everyone was sitting with a new table partner (we had the students sitting in pairs). One girl in particular told me it wasn't fair to put her friends at opposite corners of the room, and she was going to have her parents call and complain (even though she admitted to being one of the more disruptive students). I called her bluff and told her to go ahead and have her mom call in, and I failed to hear any more from her on THAT issue.
Just another story about how students don't want to take responsibility...
Posted by: chemteacher | Wednesday, December 10, 2003 at 06:14 PM
When I analyze my grades, I always end up with an inverted bell curve as well. It seems like the kids who care do well, and the kids who don't care do poorly. It's frustrating. I left the profession after ten years. My principal said that any teacher who had more than one or two failing students must be a failure as a teacher. *insert rolling eyes smile here*
Posted by: April | Tuesday, December 30, 2003 at 09:29 AM
Milquetoast
Posted by: TC | Wednesday, March 31, 2004 at 10:25 AM
I am a student considering the teaching profession. Perhaps you should ask them next time or confront them of what they think would be fair, or why they feel that way. Tell them about your frustration with them, but also your concern and faith that they can do better if they are willing to try.
It is possible for kids to break the chain of how their parents may respond to a given situation, but without guidance from someone it is nearly impossible.
I am not at all suggesting you to change their grade but perhaps show them you care and you may receive different results. Even if you can't reach them now they are at a very impressionable age and may look back and realize what you were trying to do for them.
Maybe have them write a paper about it.
Posted by: amethyst | Wednesday, April 07, 2004 at 02:36 AM
Mostly off-topic: I noticed a weeny-teeny typo on the word milquetoast. I used to think the phrase was 'milk-toast,' too; but it's actually milquetoast, a word which has an interesting story, and which I also think is more fun to spell and look at. :) Anyway, I think it's a wonderful way to describe the administration. :>
milquetoast
NOUN: One who has a meek, timid, unassertive nature.
ETYMOLOGY: After Caspar Milquetoast, a comic-strip character created by Harold Tucker Webster (1885–1952).
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